The philosophy behind the book is very interesting, however the book could be clearer with specific examples on what to do in difficult situation such as the kid insulting an adult or something along those line. Not interfering then sounds wrong,but it might be my bias. In any case, great ideas! Hands off to let the kids learn from their mistakes and create a family plan listening to the needs to the kids.

Think and don't react.

Misbehaving kids are discoraged kids.