They believe that children fundamentally need space and trust to allow them to master things by themselves, to make and solve their own problems. This creates genuine self-esteem and self-reliance because it comes from the child’s own internal cheerleader, not from someone else.
— The Danish Way of Parenting: What the Happiest People in the World Know About Raising Confident, Capable Kids por Jessica Joelle Alexander, Iben Sandahl
It is not easy to see your kid failing or getting frustrated and allow him to have the time to figure out what's going on instead of just "fixing it for him" because we are busy and don't have the patience and time they actually need from us.